How To Pull Your Ex Boyfriend Back By Pushing Him Away!

When your boyfriend ends your relationship, nothing could please you more than to pull him back. Yet the best way to get him back, is to push him away. That might sound crazy, but it is not. Here is how you can make it work and have him begging you to take him back.

To see why this tactic works so well, take a look at the breakup. When he told you he wanted to move on or needed a break, your ex boyfriend was pushing you away. How did that make you feel? It made you feel rejected and unwanted and that caused you to want your ex back. You started telling him you love him and can't live without him in a desperate attempt to pull your ex back.

When you try to pull your ex boyfriend back, it makes him uncomfortable and he pushes you away. He knows you are there any time he wants you, so he can take his time. But when you suddenly change your tactics and stop trying to get him back, it will be his turn to be confused. The trick is to make him think you don't want him anymore, but don't discourage him.

A good way to do this is to go out with your girlfriends and stop by the place he hangs out. When you see him give him a big smile and flirt with him a little and then leave. He will think you are coming on to him again and decide to contact you, but you need to disappear. Take a vacation or a trip to visit relatives and friends, so you won't be home when he calls.

Not being able to find you, will make your ex boyfriend realize that he misses you. Having seen you out having a good time will make him remember the good times you had together. He will try to remember if you were flirting with other guys as well as him and you might be with one of them right now. The breakup won't seem like such a good idea any more.

This is the reason you have to keep your cool after a breakup and pretend to be making a life of your own. It is human nature to want what you can't have and by making your ex think you no longer want him, it will make him want you. The less chance he thinks he has of getting you back, the harder he will try. This is why, if you want to pull your ex boyfriend back, you need to push him away.